Being in harmony
Only is able internal, a peace of mind it is possible to impart the skills and knowledge, and to transfer so that the child not only listened, but also heard, and understood.
Being in harmony and well understanding what exactly you want to tell, you will be able to avoid extremes: will excessively not sponsor or rigidly to control the child, will not begin to hope and on perhaps.
You will be able give completely and in due time to it skills which own.
Only knowing and following safety rules, it is possible to orient and help correctly the child on own experience to be convinced of their need.
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It gets the most part of di tactical materials, almost all materials, but disorder from it does not decrease, and increases even more.
Perhaps, rules which she learned are wrong?
No.
The matter is that there are theories and there are results, to which bring these theories, and an intermediate link between them is absent.
This link practical experience of a prepodav tel.
At this stage are necessary to the beginner who does not have experience on power and council.
Approximately the same happens to the young the doctor or with any who seized certain ideas and the principles, and then finds himself alone with the live the facts which seem to it much more mysterious, than unknown sizes in the mathematical equation!
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But actually we saw much pain to neck.
All identity of the child, and the first sign changed it there was a statement of independence.
He as if spoke: I want to do everything itself.
Please, do not help me.
He became suddenly the person who is looking for selfsufficiency despising any help.
Who could wait from it that which reactions and that the adult should be limited role of the observer?
The child in his world did not manage to appear proportions and the size as became his owner.
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Annie remembered something.
And after all the truth, it saw on the picture of witches with green hair.
Annie smiled.
She felt considerable simplification.
I always thought earlier that from my thoughts there will be terrible things she told.
Has to be, you felt ill at ease after such thoughts if you considered them such awful the godmother told.
Annie nodded.
Yes, to me it was very bad.
Sometimes, when I displayed the things on a desk precisely in such order in what they have to lie, to me calmed down.
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Also they put it is the same into words: In three years the child already the person.
And nevertheless it it is far did not settle yet that strange force which it possesses abilities to scoop information from the environment.
Children usually came to our first schools aged three years.
Nobody could teach them as they were not are susceptible to training.
And nevertheless they showed to us amazing greatness of human soul.
At us was rather the house for children, but not the real school.
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To put it briefly, in order that you could make this step, we we advise you to dare to rejoice vivacity and unpredictability of the child even if with what he or she surprise you, first causes only alarm and concern.
If you want to receive concrete recommendations as it is possible to increase pleasure and pleasure from communication with the child, try to do the following exercises: Make for yourself the list of ten acts of the child which surprised you or were unexpected.
Try to find in each of these now acts such parties which can cause in you feelings of pleasure, pleasures, enthusiasm.
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They after all and suffer, mother, in any case; she after all understands that occurred: If you saw what it was cheerful earlier.
What did we do?
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When habitual life collapses, the settled life is scattered, communications friendly, related, human unstable unstable break up, but not the patient initially mentality of the teenager is especially vulnerable.
When similar cataclysms occur on the scale of the whole country, to the child is where to take cover, he has an opportunity to escape.
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