B quality the technical assistance expert of the UN year in Thailand worked.
In , at the age of fifty five years, he received the second doctor's degree, this time on psychology, and since then works as the psychotherapist, specializing on problems of families and married couples.
TO THE READER Passed four years from the moment of issue of the first edition of the book Roberta and Gene Bayardov in Russian.
For these years a lot of things changed in our life.
One problems passed in it into nothingness, others, new problems appeared.. . . . . . Читать полностью -->
One of Hotelochek grew very quickly, after all her lyubikmy boy Igor, unlike other children, very often her fed and in large quantities once a day sent it on a vozkdukha the volitions.
Of course, the eaten volitions quickly zakbyvatsya by Igor, but it proceeded not for long.
In one of days it met the Hotelkaya.
And there was it in toy store where Igor saw very expensive car treasurehunter.
That in it was only not: it shone with headlights, the drill could drill the earth and even it had a laser beam that, for fun prozhikgy earth, to make the way to treasures.. . . . . . Читать полностью -->
Possibly, you will be able, eliminating from the speech these provocative incentives to reduce number of the obzyvaniye cases disturbing you and abuse.
Wonder: If I wanted that the child swore or called me, what I should have done?
Your answer to this question can to prompt as actually you achieve all this.
Gloomy or hostile installation in communication.
At Bernice gloomy installation.
It always looks gloomy and confoundedly.
At Timothy hostile installation.. . . . . . Читать полностью -->
Today called from school and told that you were not there ten days.
I noticed that you go without a helmet by the motorcycle of the friend.
I was told from police that you were detained in a public place for that, that you were drunk.
Tell the child that you feel concerning this situation, having used thus the Yastatement.
I am concerned, hearing it.
I am afflicted with it.
I worry when I hear it.
I am surprised.
Point to those consequences which you see.. . . . . . Читать полностью -->
Mother too learned much.
It found in music an incomparable means of communication with the son, but not only.
This experience its feat on deeper studying of music which became later for it a power source and inspiration in hard life.
It is better to measure this tiny musical progress of the child with autism not by results, and, whether music of the child mentions, whether he has satisfaction or not.
For the child's mother with autism great day when at PTA meeting she it is proud came declared that John can play the piano and read notes.. . . . . . Читать полностью -->
Therefore many children in a stressful situation suck a finger, and adults cigarettes, but it is already perverted instinct.
You, probably, kept the very best darlings ig rushka and games of the child.
Store, not emissions howl them.
When the person is intense, he should distract.
To be engaged in something simple and simple.
There is no way better, than to return it emotionally when the whole world rotated round it.
And on the first call to me it is bad, help, console me!. . . . . . Читать полностью -->
Can happen and so, that you and your child will pass through even big collisions, will reach to limit; and only then the situation will start improving.
So constrain yourself also be ready to pass through everything.
Proceed from the following parcel, everything that you do according to our recommendations, actually helps, positive results will collect and will lead you to the happy final out of dependences on, whether you see or not intermediate positive changes.
That it can occur, we know from many desperate parents with whom we happened to work.. . . . . . Читать полностью -->